What kind of person does a narcissist hate?

4. Folks smart enough to not be fooled by the initial love bombing. “Worst sex I’ve ever had, dude. She was a horrible lay. The first time, I thought she was just being shy. My mistake for trying again. Don’t go near her with your pecker. Spread the word, she’s a cold fish.”

9. The exes. “Bro, all my exes live in Texas. That’s why I moved to Cali. I got burned so bad, I’ve thought about going gay. You think I’m hot enough, man?”

7. People who are calm, happy, intelligent, self-assured, productive and have little use for the nonsense the NPD brings to a relationship. “She’s a corporate lawyer. Whoop-te-do! She’s so aloof. What man would want her? Her whole life is centered around that job.

Jenny from Perth writes – my partner is the life of the party, women and men adore him. But at home, he gets angry at us for the silliest reasons and never nice words me or our kids, always putting us down. Should I stay or leave him?

5. Successful people. They fear and resent accomplishments by others. “Now that he’s published, he’s so full of himself. What an arrogant ass. He always was now that I see how he really is.”

6. The anti-supply crowd. “They were never my real friends. They were happy to drink my booze, let me spend my money on them. Dinners, trips, you name it. When I snapped to the fact they were users and losers, I’ve never spoken to them again. They all took her side when we split up.”

2. All authority figures. Police, bosses, a spouse or parent who knows you intimately. If you have any power over them… you’re Enemy #1.

What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

8. Anyone they perceive as ever having slighted or harmed them. Grudges and resentments are immortal. “Don’t bring his name up. He was my best friend. It still hurts how he betrayed me.”

3. Gaslighting victims they’ve harmed or tried to destroy. “They’re such a liar, Blanche. None of that ever happened. Don’t listen to my ex. She’s sick. That’s why I dumped the psycho…”

11. Better-looking, better at sports, a better body, bigger boobs. “They have to be as fake as she is. If I had that kind money, I could have that same salon hair she’s always slinging around.”

My wife has a bunch of really attractive friends, and she expects me to never say anything to her about how beautiful they are. Does this seem fair? I love my wife, and just commenting shouldn’t hurt anything, right?

10. Money, power and connections they can’t access. “Homie, get me fifteen minutes with your dad. He could change my life. He knows that whole crowd.”

12. Call them out for the lies and fraudulent behaviors, especially publicly. You will see their wrath. My NPD patient loves storming out dramatically screaming about my mother being a whore. Had nothing to do with what I was confronting him about in front of others.

1. Anyone aware and strong enough to see through the sicko games they love, they live to play.

What disgusts you?